دانش تیمور نے چار شادیوں کے بیان پر معافی مانگ لی

لاہور: پاکستانی اداکار دانش تیمور کو ایک نجی ٹی وی چینل کے رمضان ٹرانسمیشن پروگرام میں دیے گئے بیان پر شدید تنقید کا سامنا کرنا پڑا، جس کے بعد انہیں معافی مانگنی پڑی۔ دانش تیمور کی اہلیہ اور اداکارہ عائزہ خان کے ساتھ ہونے والی اس گفتگو میں دانش نے چار شادیوں کے حوالے سے ایک بیان دیا تھا، جس نے سوشل میڈیا پر طوفان کھڑا کر دیا۔

دانش تیمور نے پروگرام میں کہا تھا، "مجھے اللہ کی طرف سے چار شادیوں کی اجازت ہے، میں فی الحال ایسا نہیں کر رہا۔" ان کے الفاظ، خاص طور پر "فی الحال" کے استعمال نے ناظرین اور سوشل میڈیا صارفین کو ناراض کر دیا، جنہوں نے دانش پر اپنی اہلیہ کی بے عزتی کرنے کا الزام لگایا۔

تنقید کے بعد، دانش تیمور نے اپنے انسٹاگرام اکاؤنٹ پر ایک ویڈیو شیئر کرتے ہوئے معافی مانگتے ہوئے کہا، "میں جانتا ہوں کہ آپ لوگ مجھ سے ناراض ہیں۔ میرے کچھ پرستاروں کو لگتا ہے کہ میں نے اپنی بیوی عائزہ کی بے عزتی کی، لیکن ایسا نہیں ہے۔ میں اپنی بیوی سے پیار کرتا ہوں۔ میرے الفاظ کا چناؤ شاید صحیح نہیں تھا۔ میں اکثر لفظ 'فی الحال' استعمال کرتا ہوں، جو موجودہ حالات کی طرف اشارہ کرتا ہے۔"

دانش نے مزید کہا، "مجھے یقین ہے کہ ہم سب ایک دن مر جائیں گے۔ الحمدللہ، میں نے زندگی میں کبھی تنازعات نہیں بنائے۔ اس معاملے کو ختم کر دینا چاہیے۔ جب میری نیت ہی ایسی نہیں ہے اور دل ایسا نہیں ہے، تو بات کو بڑھانے کا کوئی فائدہ نہیں۔ اگر لوگوں کو لگتا ہے کہ میری بات سے ان کی دل آزاری ہوئی ہے، تو میں معافی مانگتا ہوں۔ میں آپ کو پریشان نہیں کرنا چاہتا۔ میں نے آپ کو انٹرٹین کرنے کے لیے اپنی زندگی وقف کی ہے، اور میں چاہتا ہوں کہ آپ سب خوش رہیں، جیسے میں اپنے گھر میں اپنی بیوی اور بچوں کے ساتھ خوش رہتا ہوں۔"

https://twitter.com/x/status/1902453746766114881 دانش تیمور کا یہ بیان سوشل میڈیا پر وائرل ہو گیا، جہاں صارفین نے ان کے الفاظ پر سخت ردعمل ظاہر کیا۔ کئی صارفین نے کہا کہ دانش کا یہ بیان غیر ضروری تھا اور اس سے ان کی اہلیہ کی عزت کو ٹھیس پہنچی ہے۔ تاہم، دانش کی معافی کے بعد کچھ صارفین نے ان کے موقف کو سمجھنے کی کوشش کی اور اس معاملے کو ختم کرنے کی اپیل کی۔

یہ واقعہ ایک بار پھر اس بات کی عکاسی کرتا ہے کہ کس طرح مشہور شخصیات کے بیان سوشل میڈیا پر تنقید کا نشانہ بن سکتے ہیں۔ دانش تیمور نے اپنے بیان کے بعد معافی مانگ کر اس معاملے کو ختم کرنے کی کوشش کی ہے، لیکن اس واقعے نے انہیں ایک بار پھر بحث کا مرکز بنا دیا ہے۔​

 

[Wake up Pak]

When you follow the religion of ignorant bearded goat Mullas blindly without using your brain, then it is commonly accepted in society that Islam allows 4 wives.

 

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When you follow the religion of ignorant bearded goat Mullas blindly without using your brain, then it is commonly accepted in society that Islam allows 4 wives.

yes Muslim Man can have more than one wife

 

[Wake up Pak]

yes Muslim Man can have more than one wife

If I ask anyone on this forum or in society whether they would allow their sisters or daughters to marry a man who is already married, 100% of them will reply negatively.

 

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If I ask anyone on this forum or in society whether they would allow their sisters or daughters to marry a man who is already married, 100% of them will reply negatively.

In today's society, particularly in the context of Pakistan, it's understandable that many individuals would respond negatively if asked whether they would allow their daughters or sisters to marry a man who is already married. This reaction is deeply rooted in cultural, social, and personal values, which often prioritize monogamy and the well-being of the individual.

However, it is important to recognize that within the framework of Islamic law, the concept of polygyny (more than one marriage) is allowed, though it comes with specific conditions and responsibilities. As stated in Islamic teachings, a man may marry up to four women, provided he treats them equally and justly, a standard that is often difficult to fulfill in practice.

In the context of modern-day Pakistan, while we must acknowledge the prevailing views on marriage and family, we must also respect the religious and legal provisions that allow for more than one marriage. Education, awareness, and personal perspectives may evolve over time, but it's essential to approach such sensitive issues with understanding and respect for both societal norms and religious teachings.

 

[jigrot]

In various parts of the Arab world, the practice of polygyny (a man having more than one wife) is more culturally accepted, and in some cases, it is even viewed as a norm within certain communities. This practice is permitted under Islamic law, as mentioned in Surah An-Nisa (4:3), which allows a man to marry up to four women, provided he treats them equally and justly.


Interestingly, in some affluent Arab societies, it is not uncommon for women to willingly marry a man who already has one or more wives. In these cultures, the decision to enter a polygamous marriage can be influenced by various factors, including the man’s financial stability and ability to provide for multiple wives. Women in these communities may see this as a viable option, especially when the man is wealthy, capable of fulfilling his obligations, and offering a comfortable and secure life.


It is also essential to recognize that cultural values and perspectives around marriage can vary significantly across different regions and societies. In some Arab cultures, polygyny is viewed as an accepted practice, and women who marry into such relationships may do so out of personal choice, societal norms, or the financial benefits that such unions might provide.


However, while this practice is culturally ingrained in some regions, it remains important to respect the diverse perspectives on marriage and the conditions under which polygamy is permitted. Every society and individual holds different views, and understanding these nuances is key when discussing complex social practices like polygyny

 

[Wake up Pak]

In today's society, particularly in the context of Pakistan, it's understandable that many individuals would respond negatively if asked whether they would allow their daughters or sisters to marry a man who is already married. This reaction is deeply rooted in cultural, social, and personal values, which often prioritize monogamy and the well-being of the individual.

However, it is important to recognize that within the framework of Islamic law, the concept of polygyny (more than one marriage) is allowed, though it comes with specific conditions and responsibilities. As stated in Islamic teachings, a man may marry up to four women, provided he treats them equally and justly, a standard that is often difficult to fulfill in practice.

In the context of modern-day Pakistan, while we must acknowledge the prevailing views on marriage and family, we must also respect the religious and legal provisions that allow for more than one marriage. Education, awareness, and personal perspectives may evolve over time, but it's essential to approach such sensitive issues with understanding and respect for both societal norms and religious teachings.

 

[jigrot]

This practice is permitted under Islamic law, as mentioned in Surah An-Nisa (4:3), which allows a man to marry up to four women, provided he treats them equally and justly.
The permission for more than one marriage is mentioned in the Quran in Surah An-Nisa (4:3):

"And if you fear that you will not be just to the orphans, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hands possess. That is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice." (Quran 4:3)

This verse is the primary reference that allows for a man to marry up to four women, provided he can treat them equally and justly. The key condition here is fairness and justice; if a man fears he will not be able to maintain justice among multiple wives, he is advised to marry only one.

It’s important to note that this permission is provided within the context of justice and equality, which are fundamental principles in Islamic teachings. The responsibility of ensuring fairness is a significant aspect of this permission, and failure to do so can lead to significant consequences, as emphasized in other parts of the Quran and Hadiths.
**** I M PO R T A N T *****
The concept of multiple marriages in Islam, specifically the allowance for men to marry up to four wives, is rooted in a range of reasons, and it is essential for Muslims to accept and follow what is prescribed in the Qur’an. As followers of Islam, we must adhere to the teachings as they are, understanding that questioning the validity of these provisions is not aligned with the faith. If one refuses to accept what is outlined in Islam, it may indicate that they are not in line with the principles set forth, and they may need to reconsider their stance.

Discussing such matters, particularly in public or non-scholarly settings, should be approached with caution. If you are a scholar or well-versed in Islamic jurisprudence, then it is appropriate to engage in these discussions. However, creating unnecessary controversy or fitna (division) over issues that don’t need to be contentious is strongly discouraged. Islam provides the framework for men to marry multiple wives under specific conditions, and it is crucial to recognize that these circumstances are carefully prescribed to maintain fairness, justice, and respect within the marriage structure.

It is also important to note that a woman can, under certain circumstances, marry a man who already has a wife, and this should be done with full understanding of the rights and duties involved. Let us not engage in debates or actions that lead to fitna or divisiveness within the community.

For those considering polygamy, it is advisable to conduct thorough research and understand the responsibilities it entails. Ultimately, following the Qur’an and the guidance it provides should be our priority. If there are concerns or difficulties with the prescribed teachings, it is crucial to seek alternative solutions, but always within the framework of Islam.

 

[Wake up Pak]

This practice is permitted under Islamic law, as mentioned in Surah An-Nisa (4:3), which allows a man to marry up to four women, provided he treats them equally and justly.
The permission for more than one marriage is mentioned in the Quran in Surah An-Nisa (4:3):

"And if you fear that you will not be just to the orphans, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hands possess. That is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice." (Quran 4:3)

This verse is the primary reference that allows for a man to marry up to four women, provided he can treat them equally and justly. The key condition here is fairness and justice; if a man fears he will not be able to maintain justice among multiple wives, he is advised to marry only one.

It’s important to note that this permission is provided within the context of justice and equality, which are fundamental principles in Islamic teachings. The responsibility of ensuring fairness is a significant aspect of this permission, and failure to do so can lead to significant consequences, as emphasized in other parts of the Quran and Hadiths.
**** I M PO R T A N T *****
The concept of multiple marriages in Islam, specifically the allowance for men to marry up to four wives, is rooted in a range of reasons, and it is essential for Muslims to accept and follow what is prescribed in the Qur’an. As followers of Islam, we must adhere to the teachings as they are, understanding that questioning the validity of these provisions is not aligned with the faith. If one refuses to accept what is outlined in Islam, it may indicate that they are not in line with the principles set forth, and they may need to reconsider their stance.

Discussing such matters, particularly in public or non-scholarly settings, should be approached with caution. If you are a scholar or well-versed in Islamic jurisprudence, then it is appropriate to engage in these discussions. However, creating unnecessary controversy or fitna (division) over issues that don’t need to be contentious is strongly discouraged. Islam provides the framework for men to marry multiple wives under specific conditions, and it is crucial to recognize that these circumstances are carefully prescribed to maintain fairness, justice, and respect within the marriage structure.

It is also important to note that a woman can, under certain circumstances, marry a man who already has a wife, and this should be done with full understanding of the rights and duties involved. Let us not engage in debates or actions that lead to fitna or divisiveness within the community.

For those considering polygamy, it is advisable to conduct thorough research and understand the responsibilities it entails. Ultimately, following the Qur’an and the guidance it provides should be our priority. If there are concerns or difficulties with the prescribed teachings, it is crucial to seek alternative solutions, but always within the framework of Islam.

I won't argue, but anyone who condones having multiple wives is not adhering to the Quran.
Maybe you would also like to justify verses about how man is allowed to beat his wife, or to chop off thief's hands?
No wonder why the non-Muslims consider Muslims as barbaric and polygamous.

 

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I won't argue, but anyone who condones having multiple wives is not adhering to the Quran.
Maybe you would also like to justify verses about how man is allowed to beat his wife, or to chop off thief's hands?
No wonder why the non-Muslims consider Muslims as barbaric and polygamous.

Islam is a complete and comprehensive religion, where all the rules and laws are clearly described, including both the rewards for good deeds and the punishments for violations. Just as any legal system in the world outlines penalties for breaking laws, Islam also details specific consequences for various offenses, based on the severity of the act. These laws serve to maintain justice and order, as well as to guide believers toward righteousness.

However, the challenge arises when some individuals selectively highlight only the punitive aspects of Islamic law in an attempt to create confusion and discredit the religion. This often leads to the distortion of its teachings and the promotion of a divisive narrative. It’s important to understand that, just like in any legal system—such as in the United States, where breaking the law can result in significant prison time—the focus should not solely be on the punishment, but on the overall structure of justice.

In Islam, the concept of justice is balanced with mercy and forgiveness, and the ultimate goal is to guide individuals to righteousness. The Qur'an teaches that rewards are granted for good deeds, and punishments are prescribed for transgressions, both of which are part of a broader divine wisdom.

As Muslims, we believe in accepting both the rewards and the punishments outlined in our faith. It is a part of our submission to the will of Allah, recognizing that His laws are not only just, but are designed to protect the individual and society as a whole. Just as you wouldn't expect a legal system to function without consequences for wrongdoing, the same holds true for Islamic law, which is designed to protect justice and maintain balance in society.

Therefore, it’s important to understand the full context and philosophy behind Islamic teachings, and not to distort or misinterpret them to suit specific agendas. The essence of Islam is peace, justice, and mercy, and it’s crucial to look beyond selective and skewed interpretations to understand its true message.

 

[Wake up Pak]

Islam is a complete and comprehensive religion, where all the rules and laws are clearly described, including both the rewards for good deeds and the punishments for violations. Just as any legal system in the world outlines penalties for breaking laws, Islam also details specific consequences for various offenses, based on the severity of the act. These laws serve to maintain justice and order, as well as to guide believers toward righteousness.

However, the challenge arises when some individuals selectively highlight only the punitive aspects of Islamic law in an attempt to create confusion and discredit the religion. This often leads to the distortion of its teachings and the promotion of a divisive narrative. It’s important to understand that, just like in any legal system—such as in the United States, where breaking the law can result in significant prison time—the focus should not solely be on the punishment, but on the overall structure of justice.

In Islam, the concept of justice is balanced with mercy and forgiveness, and the ultimate goal is to guide individuals to righteousness. The Qur'an teaches that rewards are granted for good deeds, and punishments are prescribed for transgressions, both of which are part of a broader divine wisdom.

As Muslims, we believe in accepting both the rewards and the punishments outlined in our faith. It is a part of our submission to the will of Allah, recognizing that His laws are not only just, but are designed to protect the individual and society as a whole. Just as you wouldn't expect a legal system to function without consequences for wrongdoing, the same holds true for Islamic law, which is designed to protect justice and maintain balance in society.

Therefore, it’s important to understand the full context and philosophy behind Islamic teachings, and not to distort or misinterpret them to suit specific agendas. The essence of Islam is peace, justice, and mercy, and it’s crucial to look beyond selective and skewed interpretations to understand its true message.

The Quran is a book of guidance for all of humanity not just for Muslims. The wrong interpretations of the verses have caused confusion among Muslims and non-Muslims alike. Many Muslims accept what they have been taught since childhood as incontrovertible truths, but in reality, they have been misguided.
The conspiracies against Islam are a result of deep reflection, to understand the widespread hostility by almost all non-Muslims against Islam including the West, the Hindus, the Jews, and everyone else. Those who claim to be the so-called Muslims are professing what is in actuality an invented religion. Perhaps they deserve the suffering and humiliation, that they are undergoing until they return to the one true God. Islam as we know it today is not at all what is envisioned in the Quran.

 

[jigrot]

The Quran is a book of guidance for all of humanity not just for Muslims. The wrong interpretations of the verses have caused confusion among Muslims and non-Muslims alike. Many Muslims accept what they have been taught since childhood as incontrovertible truths, but in reality, they have been misguided.
The conspiracies against Islam are a result of deep reflection, to understand the widespread hostility by almost all non-Muslims against Islam including the West, the Hindus, the Jews, and everyone else. Those who claim to be the so-called Muslims are professing what is in actuality an invented religion. Perhaps they deserve the suffering and humiliation, that they are undergoing until they return to the one true God. Islam as we know it today is not at all what is envisioned in the Quran.

The Quran indeed serves as a guide for all humanity, offering wisdom, peace, and direction for everyone, not just Muslims. Misinterpretations and selective teachings have led to confusion and misunderstanding, both within the Muslim community and beyond. It's essential to approach the Quran with a deep and open understanding, free from distorted views or cultural biases. The true essence of Islam, as envisioned in the Quran, is about justice, mercy, and unity, and it requires ongoing reflection and a commitment to knowledge to truly understand and live by its teachings.