International Women's Day: how swat women feels?

silencearound

Politcal Worker (100+ posts)
PESHAWAR: Terrified, locked up at home and courting death if they go out alone, women oppressed by extremists in Swat have nothing to celebrate on International Womens Day.

Nearly 100 years after the annual day was created to mark the struggle for equal rights for half the worlds population, most women in Swat look blank and go silent when asked about gender rights and discrimination.

Theyre too frightened to speak in public. They can only leave the confines of their homes accompanied by a male relative, their bodies hidden in veils.

How can I tell you my name, are you crazy? I was told not to give my name to anyone because the Taliban could hurt me, one girl in the ninth grade told AFP by telephone from the former ski resort.

The girls dreams of becoming a doctor are over. She worries the Taliban will stop her finishing school, regardless of her parents support.

My mother told me I can do anything, but my inner soul is shattered.

Tell me if you stop women getting an education where will a sick woman go? Do you want her to go to a male doctor? I was told that education is compulsory for every man and woman in Islam but the Taliban destroyed our schools.

Militants have destroyed 191 schools in the valley, 122 of them for girls, leaving 62,000 pupils with nowhere to study, local officials say.

Huma Batool not her real name is a 42-year-old mother of two who dices with death to teach girls at a private school in the regions main town Mingora.

We have to veil ourselves and wear shuttlecock burqas. We are not safe even at home.
We fear the Taliban all the time. Life is becoming worse and worse for women in Swat, she told AFP by telephone.

Educated and financially self-sufficient, she cannot even pop to the shops without a male relative, leaving her frequently couped up at home for hours, waiting for a suitable escort to become available.

You cannot imagine how I manage to get to school, practically every day I think about leaving the job and sitting at home.

Life bores us to tears. There is no entertainment. We cant even think about cable TV, cinema, film and music. Imagine I cant even go shopping or to the bazaar as women are banned by Taliban.

Salma Javed, 35, is a nurse at a local hospital, where women however sick can only be admitted if accompanied by a male relative.

Every woman fears she will be killed if she comes out, so even sick and pregnant women have to visit hospital with their husbands.

Salma would love to leave, but she cannot scrape together the money to set herself up in Peshawar.

Now we are waiting to see what will happen after the peace deal, but let me tell you things will not change for women, she said.

The only light in Shahnaz Kousars life is that the Taliban at least for now are allowing her to go to school in Mingora. But outside her 10th grade classroom, the daily pleasures of shopping and make-up are gone.

We are now totally depending on Taliban. Theres not a single shop left where I can go and buy cosmetics, all shops selling womens things are either closed or empty.

I remember when I used to go to this market with my mother and sisters, but now it seems like a dream.
 

GraanG2

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Dont try to give swat a bad image...Its recovering and u ll see people coming from all over the country in summers to enjoy the weather of swat very soon inshaAllah...If u want to buy cosmetics ,ask me ,i ll bring it to ur doorstep...And I am sure u dont live in swat and u are not even in pakistan....DOnt act like Indian Media.
 

silencearound

Politcal Worker (100+ posts)
GraanG2 said:
Dont try to give swat a bad image...Its recovering and u ll see people coming from all over the country in summers to enjoy the weather of swat very soon inshaAllah...If u want to buy cosmetics ,ask me ,i ll bring it to ur doorstep...And I am sure u dont live in swat and u are not even in pakistan....DOnt act like Indian Media.

Well you are absolutely wrong ,

i dont want to give any clarification that i dont live in swat but fortunately my family is there.... Mashalah se Pakistan main hoon...i dont know how you get the idea that I dont live in pakistan ?? thats funny you mention indian media ... above story is from the leading new paper of Pakistan.

Time will tell my friend whats the actual situation there.