Why you should not be angry at other's abuse/bad behavious

[Noworriesbehappy]

Disclaimer: I am NOT claiming to be an expert in anything, i am just sharing how i see things when it comes to abusive behaviour.

There are two things that make any human act in a certain way or see things differently as compared to your opinion.
1-Genetics
2- The atmosphere/culture/society that he has grown up

Someone asked Naeem Bukhari what is secret of his good health at this old age, and his response was,. " before you are born, make sure you choose your parents carefully" , obviously he was joking, but he was also pointing to one fact, apart from our look, skin colour, other physical characteristics, the hormones that define behaviour e.g. dopamine, serotonin cortisol etc, are also the result of genetics, so those who are lucky to be borne with well-balanced hormones level, will be successful in having kids etc, those who are unfortunate, and have unbalanced, will suffer with mental illness e.g.depression, bipolar disorder and may not be able to have kids, and there are those who are somewhere in the middle, they might look okay, but they could have similar issues to a lesser degree.

Second, the culture/society that you grow up with also impacts your behaviour, e,g. A child born in a village, who had an Islamic education in mosques will see things and have a different opinion as compared to someone who went to the Army/private schools or colleges.
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Both of these are not his choices, it's just pure luck/ or what others might say,"God's will". You are only responsible for your happiness, do not let others' behaviour ruin your day, because the way they behave is not their fault.

 

[Zainsha]

I wonder what were patwari parents like that they gave birth to such useless brainless creatures who blindly worship the Ganja Gang. Their ganja bhagwaan made fool of all of the nation and ran away like a whipped dog and still they don't see it.

The most funny thing is that when a patwari start talking about ethics, behaviour, etc. While in reality they follow a Gangster and the gang members proudly say "gaali tou punjab ka culture hai."

iss par kehna banta hai.. "lakhhhhh di laanat patwariyon aur unn kay ganjay bhagwan pe"

 

[Noworriesbehappy]

I wonder what were patwari parents like that they gave birth to such useless brainless creatures who blindly worship the Ganja Gang. Their ganja bhagwaan made fool of all of the nation and ran away like a whipped dog and still they don't see it.

The most funny thing is that when a patwari start talking about ethics, behaviour, etc. While in reality they follow a Gangster and the gang members proudly say "gaali tou punjab ka culture hai."

iss par kehna banta hai.. "lakhhhhh di laanat patwariyon aur unn kay ganjay bhagwan pe"

I never got a chance to vote in pak's election, but I supported IK since early 2000s because for me, to try the same thing again and again, but expect different results was madness, Many of my friends were N League supporters, I used to get angry because of it, To me it was so obvious that Sharifs/Zaradis can't be good for pak but with the more grey hair, i have developed a different viewpoint about other behavior, But i still support IK.,

 

[Zainsha]

I never got a chance to vote in pak's election, but I supported IK since early
The 2000s because for me to try the same thing again and again, but expect different results was madness, Many of my friends were N League supporters, I used to get angry because of it, To me it was so obvious that Sharifs/Zaradis can't be good for pak but with the more grey hair, i have developed a different viewpoint about other behavior, But i still support IK.,

I have seen over the years how people start on these forums.. oh yeah, I am IK supporter, but I am against few of his policies. Oh! I am not a blind follower of PTI and then within few weeks, they start showing their true colors, for which they are hired for. Hope you are not one of them, but signs are evident.

Any person who has slightest support for Ganja and Zardari or fazlu, is a criminal in my opinion. These people have destroyed every institution of Pakistan. They are not political parties, they are criminal gangs.

I got a chance to vote for IK and I will do it again and again till the end of my life.

And also when people are oppressed the only thing left with them is cursing. Even Allah will not question the one who is oppressed if he curses.

At this point, there is no law in Pakistan and a fuckking gang is being installed by the same engineers who did not allow IK to get two-third majority.

Fuck the current system in Pakistan. Its a gutter.

 

[Zainsha]

You wrote such a big essay. It is very simple. Stop oppressing people, bring rule of law, cursing will go away.

God forbid if a black Vigo comes and takes your mother/sister for a fake 9th May, then I will see if you curse or not.

 

[Noworriesbehappy]

I have seen over the years how people start on these forums.. oh yeah, I am IK supporter, but I am against few of his policies. Oh! I am not a blind follower of PTI and then within few weeks, they start showing their true colors, for which they are hired for. Hope you are not one of them, but signs are evident.

Any person who has slightest support for Ganja and Zardari or fazlu, is a criminal in my opinion. These people have destroyed every institution of Pakistan. They are not political parties, they are criminal gangs.

I got a chance to vote for IK and I will do it again and again till the end of my life.

And also when people are oppressed the only thing left with them is cursing. Even Allah will not question the one who is oppressed if he curses.

At this point, there is no law in Pakistan and a fuckking gang is being installed by the same engineers who did not allow IK to get two-third majority.

Fuck the current system in Pakistan. Its a gutter.

I dont think its possible to spread the wrong information or misguide anybody using the internet. It has become clear that even Israel can't hide facts, (It has been able to do so since 1948) with all it's control of media and money power.

My solution to the current problems of Pakistan in a previous post might have given you this notion that i support the military/Nawaz Sharif/Zaedaris, I would prefer to compromise the past for a better future rather than lose IK. If you look at South Africa, If they had not done, " truth and reconciliation" i can guarantee you, that there would have been a massacre of white people and blacks would have been starving today.

It was only the foresight of Nelson Mandala that prevented this.

 

[Zainsha]

I dont think its possible to spread the wrong information or misguide anybody using the internet. It has become clear that even Israel can't hide facts, (It has been able to do so since 1948) with all it's control of media and money power.

My solution to the current problems of Pakistan in a previous post might have given you this notion that i support the military/Nawaz Sharif/Zaedaris, I would prefer to compromise the past for a better future rather than lose IK. If you look at South Africa, If they had not done, " truth and reconciliation" i can guarantee you, that there would have been a massacre of white people and blacks would have been starving today.

It was only the foresight of Nelson Mandala that prevented this.

You will be extremely naive if you think that Ganja and Zardari will act like Mandela. They are criminals. A mafia that has taken over the country through corrupting all the institutions of Pakistan. They have their Paaltoo dogs in each and every department.

Ganja and Zardari are criminal families and their only target is to make sure they keep ruling the country. Everything was going hunky dory when they were taking turns, but then IK came who had support from all over Pakistan and their "setup" got disturbed.

Truth and reconciliation? my foot. If they really want compromise, they should let go IK, who, in comparison to these thugs, has done nothing. 9th May was a staged drama.

Every criminal took benefit from Tosha khana, but who got punishment? only IK.

This country has become a rotten gutter. People have been fleeing from this country and what this criminal gang did? they made an artificial shortage of Passport paper, slowed down the process of issuing passports.

If you put khinzeer's meat in qeema machine, the outcome will be khinzeer's meat.

Let Pakistan's Nelson Mandela come to power through the power of the votes of people, and then he can do truth and reconciliation because he has people's mandate to do it.

who the fuck are phojees to be involved in this process.their job is on the border.

but again every institution of Pakistan has been destroyed. You will only come to know the reality when, God forbid, some of your household member is kidnapped by this harami regime.

 

[Citizen X]

because the way they behave is not their fault.

Is that some kind of lame insanity defense?? Of course people are 100% responsible for how they act, barring mental illness or reduced mental capacity.

With this defense of yours no criminal would even go to jail, because "its not their fault"~!

I dont think its possible to spread the wrong information or misguide anybody using the internet.

WRONG! A million percent wrong, the internet is the best way to misguide people. Even now I am seeing westerners, Jews even who knew 0 reality of the Palestinian conflict, one who even went to Israel for one of their sponsored visit, who always thought it was an empty patch of land that was given to the Jews after WWII, after the recent conflict she was appalled once she discovered the truth of how land was stolen.

How many people got brainwashed over the internet to go join ISIS and do "jihad" in the name of Allah.

Man either you are having a real bad day or know absolutely nothing what your on about!

 

[Masud Rajaa]

fcuk the rogue army

 

[Citizen X]

fcuk the rogue army

Well if you are going to keep repeating the same shit over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over AGAIN!

At least have the courage to say it properly. Unless you can't spell for shit, then its a total different story altogether.

 

[ibrar]

Disclaimer: I am NOT claiming to be an expert in anything, i am just sharing how i see things when it comes to abusive behaviour.

There are two things that make any human act in a certain way or see things differently as compared to your opinion.
1-Genetics
2- The atmosphere/culture/society that he has grown up

Someone asked Naeem Bukhari what is secret of his good health at this old age, and his response was,. " before you are born, make sure you choose your parents carefully" , obviously he was joking, but he was also pointing to one fact, apart from our look, skin colour, other physical characteristics, the hormones that define behaviour e.g. dopamine, serotonin cortisol etc, are also the result of genetics, so those who are lucky to be borne with well-balanced hormones level, will be successful in having kids etc, those who are unfortunate, and have unbalanced, will suffer with mental illness e.g.depression, bipolar disorder and may not be able to have kids, and there are those who are somewhere in the middle, they might look okay, but they could have similar issues to a lesser degree.

Second, the culture/society that you grow up with also impacts your behaviour, e,g. A child born in a village, who had an Islamic education in mosques will see things and have a different opinion as compared to someone who went to the Army/private schools or colleges.
.
Both of these are not his choices, it's just pure luck/ or what others might say,"God's will". You are only responsible for your happiness, do not let others' behaviour ruin your day, because the way they behave is not their fault.

This is a very difficult subject and it is not easy to summarize all the aspects in just few paragraphs. To be fair, you have done a decent job for average Joe to get a feel of your thesis.
A professor of psychology in the Western University, London, Ontario has a written a book where he determines, based on empirical data, that the individuals behaviour and success is largely based on discipline in controlling his or her physical desires. He goes on in explaining the discipline which is almost the definition of Takwa an Islamic term. Based on data he proved that some of the societies like Chinese and Japanese have shown more practice of this kind of discipline and they score much better that some other societies. Some people who are born with all the negative things you have listed but practice individual Takwa can improve their odds to have better personality.
Just a random thought!

 

[Noworriesbehappy]

You will be extremely naive if you think that Ganja and Zardari will act like Mandela. They are criminals. A mafia that has taken over the country through corrupting all the institutions of Pakistan. They have their Paaltoo dogs in each and every department.

Ganja and Zardari are criminal families and their only target is to make sure they keep ruling the country. Everything was going hunky dory when they were taking turns, but then IK came who had support from all over Pakistan and their "setup" got disturbed.

Truth and reconciliation? my foot. If they really want compromise, they should let go IK, who, in comparison to these thugs, has done nothing. 9th May was a staged drama.

Every criminal took benefit from Tosha khana, but who got punishment? only IK.

This country has become a rotten gutter. People have been fleeing from this country and what this criminal gang did? they made an artificial shortage of Passport paper, slowed down the process of issuing passports.

If you put khinzeer's meat in qeema machine, the outcome will be khinzeer's meat.

Let Pakistan's Nelson Mandela come to power through the power of the votes of people, and then he can do truth and reconciliation because he has people's mandate to do it.

who the fuck are phojees to be involved in this process.their job is on the border.

but again every institution of Pakistan has been destroyed. You will only come to know the reality when, God forbid, some of your household member is kidnapped by this harami regime.

There is no way, I am expecting sharifs or zardaris to act like Nelson Mendala, they are more like white south African who were beneficiary of the apartheid system but they were in control and had power. Because they had done so many evil acts,they were not willing to give up control without destroying everything and alot of killing.

For a peaceful transition, it was important to have truth and reconciliation. It was obvious to every one that black will take back control, but the question was, at what cost?? Would the massacre of all whites families and some black people be a fair price to pay? Thats why, they had this agreement that, a fair election( one person one vote) will be held, where it was obvious that black people will come into power in return, white were given guarantees that they would not face any criminal charges after they admit their crimes in front of a commission.

 

[Noworriesbehappy]

Citizen X , this debate is an example of how we see things differently. In my opinion, peaceful transition would be as lot better than a bloody revolution where many will die. The leaders like Imran Khan, are miracle/gift for any country. We should try every thing to minimize lost of life.

 

[Citizen X]

Citizen X , this debate is an example of how we see things differently. In my opinion, peaceful transition would be as lot better than a bloody revolution where many will die. The leaders like Imran Khan, are miracle/gift for any country. We should try every thing to minimize lost of life.

????? What has any of this got to do with my previous post???
Bad day carrying on or having a massive comprehension failure?