A girl murdered in Lahore, Just because she didn't bring enough 'Jahaiz'

[Humi]

laikin jab aisey log aatey hain to itney meethey hotey hain k banda kehta hai inse achay log hain he nai duniya mein, phir jab rishta pakka ho jaata hai shadi ki date teh ho jaati hai, aik damm se farmaaish kar detey hain k hamen gari chahiye :angry_smile:

india mein aik larki k sath aisa he hua , pehle kaha sirf beti chahiye phir card chapp gaye, baat teh ho gai to shadi se kuch din pehle phadda daal diya k hamen gaari aur 5 laakh rupya chahiye warna shadi nai ho gi, larki ne mobile se video bana li aur TV pe de di (bigsmile), wo khandaan phir buriiiiiiiiiii trah zleel hua aur larki k bhai ne tv pe ailan kiya k main apni behan ki shadi usi date pe karna chahta hoon jis pay teh hui hai, agar koi larka baghair dowry k shadi karna chahta hai to contact karey aur usi date pe larki ki shadi ho bhi gai without dowry :)

that's a wonderful story..:)..yes I have heard that they blackmail at the last moment as well...aur waldain yeh soch kay keh log kya kahein gay apni beti ko is aag mein jhoonk detay hain..(serious)

 

[Dhiraj Kumar]

@kayawish

Desi laundiya se shadi karo.. Khana bi pakaengi and job bi karengi!!
Canadian ladkiyan jhel nahi paaonge

 

[Humi]

@kayawish

Desi laundiya se shadi karo.. Khana bi pakaengi and job bi karengi!!
Canadian ladkiyan jhel nahi paaonge

because people think like that, girls which are brought up in foreign countries are left with no choice but to marry someone from back home whose main purpose is to settle in another country only!

 

[aamir_uetn]

that's a wonderful story..:)..yes I have heard that they blackmail at the last moment as well...aur waldain yeh soch kay keh log kya kahein gay apni beti ko is aag mein jhoonk detay hain..(serious)

aisey incidents mein aik bohat bara role societly ka bhi hai

 

[سعد]

admin ..... please change the topic with ''Shanno ki Shadi... hafte main 5 baar'' ....sirf siasat plus par

 

[Humi]

aisey incidents mein aik bohat bara role societly ka bhi hai

masla hi society ka...yeh hi hamaray maa baap keh zehns ki aisi training kartay hain..

 

[aamir_uetn]

because people think like that, girls which are brought up in foreign countries are left with no choice but to marry someone from back home whose main purpose is to settle in another country only!

u r right bohat se log isi maqsad k liye shadi kartey hain aur phir foreign jaa k zleel bhi hotey hain

 

[aamir_uetn]

masla hi society ka...yeh hi hamaray maa baap keh zehns ki aisi training kartay hain..

laikin i hope k new generation aisi nai ho gi, i have seen some hopes :)

 

[Humi]

u r right bohat se log isi maqsad k liye shadi kartey hain aur phir foreign jaa k zleel bhi hotey hain

yes some people are sincere of course..but then how would you know...and a difference in mentality can be an issue as well..

 

[A.Ali.T]

agar koi aap ki beti say aisay kehta toh? (omg):P

Main kehta beta pehlay meri shaadi to honay do.

 

[Dhiraj Kumar]

because people think like that, girls which are brought up in foreign countries are left with no choice but to marry someone from back home whose main purpose is to settle in another country only!

Huma Jee aaj kal ke zamanein badal gaya hai !! Woh zamana koi aur tha once many low skilled desis made their way into europe,usa, canada!!

Aab hum sab loag foreign country mein reh saktein hai( without using someone as tool )!!

I never said foreign desi girls are helpless. But they are more confused compared to desi girls who strive harder with education and can simultaneously support their husband .

 

[Humi]

Main kehta beta pehlay meri shaadi to honay do.

accha phir I hope aap ko bohut acchi ladki milein..:)

 

[aamir_uetn]

Main kehta beta pehlay meri shaadi to honay do.

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[A.Ali.T]

accha phir I hope aap ko bohut acchi ladki milein..:)

Umeed pay dunya qayam hay. Main bhi issi umeed kay sahaaray chalaa jaraha hoon.

 

[Humi]

laikin i hope k new generation aisi nai ho gi, i have seen some hopes :)

I think the younger generation is smarter in this sense...the issue is our parents...they still have this mentality..plus we are taught always obey your parents and they always know right etc and youngsters often succumb under this pressure..

 

[aamir_uetn]

yes some people are sincere of course..but then how would you know...and a difference in mentality can be an issue as well..

haan zahir hai difference environments hain to mentality bhi different ho sakti hai, kaafi issues hain , isi liye main soch raha hoon rishta.com ko block he karwa doon, na ho shadi na hon maslay :lol:

 

[Humi]

Huma Jee aaj kal ke zamanein badal gaya hai !! Woh zamana koi aur tha once many low skilled desis made their way into europe,usa, canada!!

Aab hum sab loag foreign country mein reh saktein hai( without using someone as tool )!!

I never said foreign desi girls are helpless. But they are more confused compared to desi girls who strive harder with education and can simultaneously support their husband .

yes you are right that the situation is much better than it was lets say a decade ago but it still does happen unfortunately...I guess now the biggest issue is the mistreatment of the girls who are wed and brought here from south asian countries...

Could you please elaborate as to what you meant by they are confused?

 

[Humi]

haan zahir hai difference environments hain to mentality bhi different ho sakti hai, kaafi issues hain , isi liye main soch raha hoon rishta.com ko block he karwa doon, na ho shadi na hon maslay :lol:

well you can still find the person with right mentality if you focus but a lot of people don't do that...yeah good idea..aap siasat say hi shaadi kar lo...kam say kam aap kay sir pay belan toh nahin maaray gi woh..:lol:

 

[Dhiraj Kumar]

yes you are right that the situation is much better than it was lets say a decade ago but it still does happen unfortunately...I guess now the biggest issue is the mistreatment of the girls who are wed and brought here from south asian countries...

Could you please elaborate as to what you meant by they are confused?

Men are totally independent, We cook, clean and do everything alone before marriage! Men now don't want to marry some semi literate or ba/bcom girls ; so Mistreatment is very rare in our generation.

Well I want to exclude Indian girls living abroad ;the are more educated and sophisticated. I found it lacking among Pakistani/Bengali girls settled abroad!

The very aim of living abroad is to have good education and follow western ethics in right sense!!

 

[A.Ali.T]

Huma Jee aaj kal ke zamanein badal gaya hai !! Woh zamana koi aur tha once many low skilled desis made their way into europe,usa, canada!!

Aab hum sab loag foreign country mein reh saktein hai( without using someone as tool )!!

I never said foreign desi girls are helpless. But they are more confused compared to desi girls who strive harder with education and can simultaneously support their husband .

There are good and bad people everywhere, girls raised in western countries are very hard working they don't want be be burden on their husbands, rather they want to share the burden of raising the family. The problem is many times boys raised in India and Pakistan don't want to share the burden of household chores. That is when the problem arises.