Iqrar Ul Hassan's Response On 2nd Marriage

[Ali-NZ]

Well done great man and best of luck

 

[ejazahmad88]

LeezaKhan: Lets not take debate into religion. I only wanted to know that if 2 girls are happy with 1 man then what is the problem with you. You have complete right on your own life but u can't abuse others. Don't force others to accept what you think is right. In our neighbouring country India (on Himalayan villages) even in these days 1 girl happily marry with 2-3-4 and in some cases with 5 brothers. For your kind information it is far better to have 2nd wife and take care the 1st one with same respect rather to divorce 1st one and then go for 2nd. Or go for extra marriage affairs like in Europe. However, I respect your views and you are open to apply in your own life.

 

[Khirad e Be-Lagam]

What a moron.

Sob would still have balls to defend his relation to other woman while have one at home.

Well actually both are at home. Attention to details!

 

[The Revolutionist]

If one can afford two wives,treat them equal and it both the wives are ok with that then all is well. In fact it is great fun.It is better to get married instead of cheating on your wife by sleeping every second woman.

 

[Admiral]

Europeans have a strange habit, they keep dozens of extra-marital affairs, but when it comes to marriage they go bonkers on polygamy.

Desi fascists try to copy the bad habits of goras but will miserably fail.

 

[LeezaKhan]

My anger was directed towards these whorish newspersons for two reasons. One, when it was IK's marriage, despite the fact that he was single; these sobs made such a hue & cry.Now that he's already married and weds again, he's preaching ethics & privacy-respect??

Second, when it comes to Islam/Quran, men tend to remember just one ayah that too out of context. Marriage in islam is intended to raise a family. Family means a father, a mother and kids. A man and multiple women can make a brothel not family.

I challenge everyone here to show me on family where a father got married to someone else and the family did not suffer.

 

[Pakistani1947]

My anger was directed towards these whorish newspersons for two reasons. One, when it was IK's marriage, despite the fact that he was single; these sobs made such a hue & cry.Now that he's already married and weds again, he's preaching ethics & privacy-respect??

Second, when it comes to Islam/Quran, men tend to remember just one ayah that too out of context. Marriage in islam is intended to raise a family. Family means a father, a mother and kids. A man and multiple women can make a brothel not family.

I challenge everyone here to show me on family where a father got married to someone else and the family did not suffer.

If second marriage was that bad, Allah would not have allowed Muslim to do it.

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If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.

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(Qur'an 4:129) ????? ????????????? ??? ?????????? ?????? ?????????? ?????? ?????????? ? ????? ????????? ????? ????????? ???????????? ???????????????? ? ????? ?????????? ??????????? ??????? ??????? ????? ???????? ?????????​

Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

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The best explanation is given by Mr. Ghamidi on this Topic:

 

[LeezaKhan]

If second marriage was that bed, Allah would not have allowed Muslim to do it.

(Qur'an 4:3) وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَ‌ٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.
اور اگر تم یتیم لڑکیوں سے بے انصافی کرنے سے ڈرتے ہوتوجوعورتیں تمہیں پسند آئیں ان میں سے دو دو تین تین چار چار سے نکاح کر لو اگر تمہیں خطرہ ہو کہ انصاف نہ کر سکو گے تو پھر ایک ہی سے نکاح کرو جو لونڈی تمہارے ملک میں ہو وہی سہی یہ طریقہ بے انصافی سے بچنے کے لیے زیادہ قریب ہے

(Qur'an 4:129) وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَن تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ ۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُوا كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۚ وَإِن تُصْلِحُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
اور تم عورتوں کو ہرگز برابر نہیں رکھ سکو گے اگرچہ اس کی حرص کرو سوتم بالکل ہی ایک طرف نہ جھک جاؤ کہ دوسری عورت کو لٹکی ہوئی چھوڑ دو اور اگر اصلاح کرتے رہو اور پرہیزگاری کرتے رہو تو الله بحشنے والا مہربان ہے

The best explanation is given by Mr. Ghamidi on this Topic:

Exactly my point.....
I totally agree with Ghamdi sahab. And that was what I wrote earlier.

If Allah would have intended 4 wives for one man, Allah would have one Adam and 4 Hawa and Allah did not.

 

[Two Stooges]

Why do i have zero respect for people who unnecessarily marry two women?

، میرے خیال میں چوری چھپے عورتوں سے تعلقات استوار کرنے سے کہیں بہتر ہے
کہ انسان نکاح کر کے کسی کی کفالت کا ذمّہ اُٹھائے
اور برائی سے بچ کر نفسانی خواہشات کو پورا کرے

 

[kakamuna420]

what is his qualification to become a journalist. Just because he is borii or aga khani

 

[kakamuna420]

، میرے خیال میں چوری چھپے عورتوں سے تعلقات استوار کرنے سے کہیں بہتر ہے
کہ انسان نکاح کر کے کسی کی کفالت کا ذمّہ اُٹھائے
اور برائی سے بچ کر نفسانی خواہشات کو پورا کرے

Poor guy had to move from one bed to another the whole night