GHULAM NABI
Politcal Worker (100+ posts)
What 60 things women should do to keep men happy?
There is difference between to behave like a husband, friend and 'jooru kaa ghulaam'? ---- The golden 60 principles you laid down fell in last category.
For example, ---- leaving seat for her? --- it should be the opposite --- man came home from all hard work ---- --- women have more responsibility(being at home whole day) to tender love, affection and take care of husband's happiness.
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brilTek
Islam honors women as wives. Islam urges the husband to treat his wife in a good and kind manner, and says that the wife has rights over the husband like his rights over her, except that he has a degree over her, because of his responsibility of spending and taking care of the family’s affairs. Islam states that the best of the Muslim men is the one who treats his wife in the best manner, and the man is forbidden to take his wife’s money without her approval. Allaah says:“and live with them honorably” [al-Nisa’ 4:19]
“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise” [al-Baqarah 2:228]
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well.” [Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 331; Muslim, 1468]
And the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” [al-Tirmidhi, 3895]