i know it is a proper word, but i said its not appropriate to use publicly. and i know punjabi te shed bohat jangi tara aandi ay punjabi meinu. I never seen any Gujjar using this word alot in talks. Rather it is more insulting to use this word for own wife. and dont tell me now that u knw more coz i have got proper Gujjar community here and Pakistan and no1 uses it..Peace