عائشہ اکرم کو ہراساں کرنیوالوں نے بادشاہی مسجد میں نمازاداکی، جاوید چوہدری

[Eyeaan]

yr 5 saal ki bachi ghar me mehfooz ni joint family system ho aur ap log sirf Patwari

You don't like Joint Family system well and good - that's your opinion and I have no issues.
But what is your source for claim and conclusion that joint family system is the cause of rape of 5-year old. Any comparative study or is it merely your 'feeling'
Please don't give me your anecdotal evidence or quote some news claim of NGO - Please only actual scientific comparative study to establish correlation of joint family and 5-year old rape.. Also please give the source data and method it was collected.

Don't worry I'm also working on the same agenda like yours. Not just joint family system but "male" is the basic cause of rape and all kind of violence, we must only have single parent families to save our children from these monsters.

 

[Eyeaan]

yr 5 saal ki bachi ghar me mehfooz ni joint family system ho

Sorry to bother you again.
In case you don't have access to a scientific study for establishing correlation between 5-year old rape and joint family system for Pakistan ,I make it easy for you.

Since Joint Family System has been a common practice among nations in thousands of cultures since millenniums, so number of 5-year old rape (or any rape) might have decreased with the progress towards nuclear or modern single parent family . Do you have any such anthropological study to establish this correlation and needed data. Please only a scientific study and analysis so we can abolish against this evil and monstrous Joint families as soon as possible in favor of single parent family!

 

[MADdoo]

You don't like Joint Family system well and good - that's your opinion and I have no issues.
But what is your source for claim and conclusion that joint family system is the cause of rape of 5-year old. Any comparative study or is it merely your 'feeling'
Please don't give me your anecdotal evidence or quote some news claim of NGO - Please only actual scientific comparative study to establish correlation of joint family and 5-year old rape.. Also please give the source data and method it was collected.

Don't worry I'm also working on the same agenda like yours. Not just joint family system but "male" is the basic cause of rape and all kind of violence, we must only have single parent families to save our children from these monsters.

brother i am not sharing my opinion about joint family system, i am in big favour of joint family system. and i love being in the joint family system.

5 years was an exemplary statement, I can share with you a number of cases where minors were victims by cousins, neighbours, rickshaw drivers or uncles. if you are not aware then this is a different case.
A minor cousin of mine told my wife that her male cousin tries to do some sexual acts. what more I am needed to believe. this is not a makeup storey, I am not ashamed to share the fact.

 

[MADdoo]

Sorry to bother you again.
In case you don't have access to a scientific study for establishing correlation between 5-year old rape and joint family system for Pakistan ,I make it easy for you.

Since Joint Family System has been a common practice among nations in thousands of cultures since millenniums, so number of 5-year old rape (or any rape) might have decreased with the progress towards nuclear or modern single parent family . Do you have any such anthropological study to establish this correlation and needed data. Please only a scientific study and analysis so we can abolish against this evil and monstrous Joint families as soon as possible in favor of single parent family!

Bro this is not about joint family or single family. this is all about male deprivation of having sex. Sexual urge is more than the available opportunity. Due to our social system and especially in the middle class/lower middle class, people get less opportunity and the urge to satisfy their desire is more. Hence these evil acts are the results of deprivation in society.

 

[Eyeaan]

brother i am not sharing my opinion about joint family system, i am in big favour of joint family system. and i love being in the joint family system.

5 years was an exemplary statement, I can share with you a number of cases where minors were victims by cousins, neighbours, rickshaw drivers or uncles. if you are not aware then this is a different case.
A minor cousin of mine told my wife that her male cousin tries to do some sexual acts. what more I am needed to believe. this is not a makeup storey, I am not ashamed to share the fact.

If you are not on the "agenda" then I do agree with you on all accounts. We need to educate our children, parents and other family members, we all need to keep an eye what goes non on within a family. Easily accessible pornographic material has also changed sensibilities and mores. Studies show (I'll not go deep into it) that there are real issues of incest in two very small communities in Pakistan. However I'll not say much on phonography or sex-deprivation issues because \i do not have good understanding on these factors.

That said most vulnerable child-girls and women are a) domestic workers and b) girls/woman under the hold of feudal in villages- which sometimes end up in murders. These account for large and most number of rapes+ physical violence, kidnappings but those are not generally even reported. These two groups have least access to law and societal support. These persistent and prevalent crimes against women and children are not much highlighted by media and "rights groups" rather overlooked- perhaps because these hit the rural rich. land holding issues and urban ruling elite - media and rights groups are after "juicy" issue related with incest or molvis/teachers which easily sell everywhere. or after rich/middle class/showbiz girls. Similarly most number of cases of harassments, fraudulent enticement and blackmailing are related to all kind of girls students in and around schools - which are rarely reported even parents. These are daily occurrences which need utmost attention. We need to highlight, legislate, prosecute and train police for these three areas than to be impulsive on infrequent violence against women which become big news items.