A woman may be married for four reasons

[QaiserMirza]

A WOMAN MAY BE MARRIED FOR FOUR REASONS​

The Prophet (PBUH) said: "A woman may be married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage (family status), her beauty or her religious commitment; Choose the one who is religious and you will prosper.
{Sahih Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith Number 27}

In another hadith, the Prophet (PBUH) said: "The whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious woman."
{Sahih Muslim, Book 8, Hadith Number 3465}

Abu Bakr (RA) once asked Rasulallah (PBUH) what was the best thing to be treasured, and he (PBUH) replied: "the tongue in remembrance of Allah, the heart filled with thanks to Allah, and a pious wife who helps in virtuous deeds."

Naratted by Abu Huraira (RA), Muhammad {Sallallahu ALayhi Wa Sallam} said: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, `A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry ...the religious woman [otherwise], you will be a loser.'"

[Bukhaari, 3/242; Muslim, 2/1086]


True, beauty and charm is hard to resist, yet beauty does not last forever. Financial status is dynamic, and so is worldly status, yet religion strongly establishes a household, and it may be that through your intention of marrying her for her religion, the rest is given to you anyway.

If marriage completes half our faith, shouldn't that half be the best half? A woman married for the wrong reasons can only weaken the Muslim household. Consider that she will be your life-long companion and the rearer of your children. Don't marry her for her worldly wealth, but for her wealth in Islamic wisdom and knowledge. Her status in this life is illusionary, so choose her for her status in the sight of Allah. Beauty is but superficial, but the beauty of Imaan is transcendent.

 

[angryoldman]

not only for women these conditions also apply for men,but more for women coz they create whole society and only pious woman can lead ur kids to right path with the gidence of allah tallah.

 

[hassam]

Qaise sahab, kuch mardoon kay baray main bhi farmaiay. App ka sara zoor bas aurtoon per he hota hai. Please QB do not get offended by this post. I am just highlighting a reality that is eating up our moral values like termites.

 

[babadeena]

A woman may be married due to various reasons, notably:

a) mother has become old, and a domestic servant is needed to take
care of kitchen plus as per average of 7 to 10 members family;

b) get nationality of another country;

Qaiser Sahib, little bit you may have checked Quran also. The Supreme Source of
rules and regulations, what the criteria is there?

 

[Classified]

Qaise sahab, kuch mardoon kay baray main bhi farmaiay. App ka sara zoor bas aurtoon per he hota hai. Please QB do not get offended by this post. I am just highlighting a reality that is eating up our moral values like termites.

hehe exactly , on siyasi forum dunno why admin is allowing such posts from a womeniser in a name of Islam .

Random section give edge to everyone to post anything .... :( :S but still why Qaiser is after women hath mu dho kay balkay naha kar peechay para hua hay ...

 

[Raaz]

hehe exactly , on siyasi forum dunno why admin is allowing such posts from a womeniser in a name of Islam .

Random section give edge to everyone to post anything .... :( :S but still why Qaiser is after women hath mu dho kay balkay naha kar peechay para hua hay ...

Please mind your language.

I am 100 % sure that he is not like that. He has done lots of good and informative posts.

This is informative too.

please try to be moderator by not going to extreme in your comments about personalities like Qasir .

 

[Classified]

please mind your language.

I am 100 % sure that he is not like that. He has done lots of good and informative posts.

This is informative too.

Please try to be moderator by not going to extreme in your comments about personalities like qasir .

ponka !!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[haseebgoraya]

jazakALLAH
actually this thread is 4 men coz men have to choose women :D
n i couldn't get it how is he after women? :P

 

[sahiL]

Qaiser bhai appko kisi khatoon organization se $$ toh nahi milte...lolz....just kidding bro....Mashallah very nice post.....n nowadays it is very important specially in the western society where im living.....ppl tend to go 4 beauty rather than her interest in Islam....JazakAllah

Qaise sahab, kuch mardoon kay baray main bhi farmaiay. App ka sara zoor bas aurtoon per he hota hai. Please QB do not get offended by this post. I am just highlighting a reality that is eating up our moral values like termites.

 

[itsnotme90]

Very Nice post jazakallah & dont mind who r criticizing over islamic post

 

[Raaz]

ponka !!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks , but what about this ?

"You stop telling lies about me, I'll stop telling t

 

[babadeena]

A woman may be married because Allah created her for man's peace (sakoon).