Do you celebrate Valentines Day? People in Peshawar certainly do!! ;)

famamdani

Minister (2k+ posts)
Re: 14-FEB HAYA DAY not VALENTINE DAY

Dear Kafanposh ,
Do not you have any one to say .....Happy Valentine Day......
Yes or not ???

32 bore ki goli agar gold se bana ke bhi kisi ko kaho ke tum khao ge::...................................what his answer............................yes or no.............?????
 

Kafanposh

Voter (50+ posts)
Re: 14-FEB HAYA DAY not VALENTINE DAY

SPARE 5 MINUTES and then
EVEN YOU WONT HAVE ANY ONE TO SAY THIS after reading below lines

Okay...so it's that time of the year again. When they say that 'love' is in the air. The time when you see 'RED' everywhere.....red hearts, red candy, red flowers and red roses.
And when you walk into the stores you see chocolates, and jewelry and gifts for that 'someone special' you know.

This is the time when the old and the young, and even kids, as young as those in elementary school, exchange valentine cards and 'love notes' amongst themselves.

And why is all this?
Because it's "Valentine's Day"...that's why.

But the sad calamity is, that even us Muslims are doing this. And its not just in the West. Those living in Muslim countries are just as involved. They too, are exchanging cards and gifts and love notes.
They too, are celebrating Valentine's Day,

But what is this "Valentine's Day" after all?
Have we ever thought about it? What is the story behind it?
What does celebrating "Valentine's Day" really mean?
Where does this fit in a Muslim's life?
In fact, does it even fit in it at all?

Looking at the Qur'aan and Sunnah, one should realize that we should not be celebrating it in the first place, because it is a celebration of the non-Muslims. Whatever we need to celebrate has been prescribed to us by Allaah and His Messenger (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) and it is prohibited to celebrate anything else. That is why And Allaah said:
"For every nation We have ordained religious ceremonies which they must follow." [Surah al-Hajj:67]

And the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said: Every nation has its own Eid (celebration) and this is our Eid (meaning Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha). (al-Bukhaari, Muslim)

But, even if this Divine command was not there, it still would not be appropriate for a Muslim to celebrate Valentine's Day.
Why is that?
Because, if you really think about it, what this day promotes and revolves around, goes against the very basic principles of Islaam. What this day encourages, cuts at the very roots of what our religion teaches us.
Let us see what some of these differences are:

1. Allaah commands us to lower our gaze and not look at the opposite gender.

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts....And tell the believing women to lower their gaze, and protect their private parts... Surah al-Noor :30-31)
But Valentine's Day encourages people to deliberately look and stare and seek out the 'one' that you find attractive and pick him/her as your valentine.



2. Allaah orders the Muslim women not to talk unnecessarily or in a soft manner to strange men.

....then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire (Surah al-Ahzaab :32)

Even for the Sahaabah, Allaah ordered them to screen themselves from the wives of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) when they need to ask them something. Who could be purer than the wives of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) and who could be higher in taqwa than the Sahaabah?

"And when you ask (the Prophet's wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts. (Surah al-Ahzaab: 53)



Yet, for Valentine's Day, you see young men and women who are absolutely not mahram for one another in any way whatsoever, going way beyond this prohibition. Not only are they talking to each other in a soft and flirtatious way, but they are right out expressing their 'love' (in reality,lust) for each other.

3. The Sunnah prohibits a man and a woman from being alone together at any time.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
Whoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day, let him not be alone with a woman who has no mahram present, for the third one present will be the Shaytaan. (Ahmad -- saheeh by al-Albaani)

But those who celebrate Valentine's Day purposely seek to be alone with each other and go out on dates with each other while Allaah says:

And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him) (al-Isra :32)

4. Islaam prohibits a man to even touch a non-mahram woman.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle, that would be better for him than his touching a woman who is not permissible for him. (al-Tabaraani --saheeh by al-Albaani)

But Valentine's Day promotes more than just touching. It promotes hugging, kissing, cuddling and much more. May Allaah protect us.

5. Islaam teaches us that real love between a man and a woman, that is acceptable and allowed by Allaah is only that between a husband and his wife.
"And of His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you might reside with them, and has put love and mercy between you. Surely, there are signs in this for those who think. (al-Room: 21)

But Valentine's Day endorses haraam relationships between a non-mahram man and woman and encourages illicit love and un-Islaamic affiliations.


6. Islaam tells us that Hayaa' (modesty) and bashfulness are a jewel to be treasured.
It is a purity and innocence that is a virtue, regardless for a man or a woman. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
Hayaa' (modesty) is a branch of faith. (Bukhaari)

On the other hand, this Valentine's day advocates nothing but shamelessness and immodesty. Young men and women who have no hayaa for Allaah, leave alone for each other, openly and shamelessly, ask each other to 'be their love' or be their 'valentine'. Subhaan Allaah!

Conclusion:
We, as Muslims, should not be celebrating Valentine's day, nor is it allowed for us to do so. Everything that this day revolves around and is associated with is totally against the pure and pristine teachings of Allaah and His Messenger (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam).



One shouldn't even congratulate one another or commemorate this day in any way or form. Even if this celebration is between a husband and wife, it is not right to do so because it is a celebration of the non-Muslims. And of course, if it is an illicit relationship, then obviously it is haraam.

We should adhere to the limits set by Allaah, and not transgress them just because we see other people doing so. May Allah guide us and enable us to be true Muslims who submit earnestly and sincerely to Allaah and His Orders. Ameen.

"O you who believe! Fear Allaah and keep your duty to Him. And let every person look to what he has sent forth for tomorrow, and fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is All-Aware of what you do." (Surah al-Hashr:18)

True Love
True love seeks sacrifice and Ive given it all.
This, this is true love in its purest form.
I turn my face towards You now.
The Lord of my world and the Heavens above.
I am Yours and Yours, alone.
My prayer, my sacrifice are only for You.
My life and death are Yours to take.
A promise I make.
To lay my life for You.
An oath that I worship.
No-one but You.
(Inspired by dua of The Holy Prophet SAW to be read at Qurbani time)

Let us then find True sacrifice anything for Him-even their own lives.
Do we have that kind of pure and intense love in our life? Who do we love the most-our own selves and desires or Our Rabb? If we love Allah, how can we celebrate a pagan custom when our Beloved Lord abhors paganism more than anything else? Then how deeply do we feel on Id-al-Azha and how do we feel on Valentines?

A Muslim doesnt do something just because the whole world is doing it. He doesnt waste his life. Let us be Muslims in heart, body and soul.
 
Valentine day

happy valentine day shomaila
you sacrifice your life in the love of your husband because you don't want to live in this selfish society for me you aresassi,heer,sohni,sheree,juliyat
.........................................
Apni zidagi sey sab payar kartey hai lakin kisi kay liye apni jan dena kahtey sab hai data koi koi hay so mere doa hay ka rabulalameen tom ko apni rehmat may panah dey aur tumhari qurnani ko kabuliyat ki woo manzilat atta farmai ka pura pakistan tum ko yaad rakhe
ameen.
 

sangeen

Minister (2k+ posts)
Re: 14-FEB HAYA DAY not VALENTINE DAY

HAYA DAY should not be only 14-FEB .

Every day should be HAYA DAY .

Let The 14-FEB as a VALENTINE DAY .


yani saal bhar Haya Day mana kar apni izzat aur iman bacha lo aur 14-Feb ko apni LUNGI khol kar saare izzat ka falooda bana do...... zara sochie ke kisi behan beti ki izzat ek bar chali jae to phir wo 364 Haya Day manane se bhi loat ke nahi aegi......
 

tiger54

MPA (400+ posts)
Happy valentines day to all the cute girls on this forum (kidding)
i do celebrate it with full zeal and i think anyone who loves someone should coz this stuff makes them feel special!
v r promoting peace and love!
 

haqiqat

MPA (400+ posts)
Happy valentines day to all the cute girls on this forum (kidding)
i do celebrate it with full zeal and i think anyone who loves someone should coz this stuff makes them feel special!
v r promoting peace and love!
same from me to all your family members !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! specially girls
 

swing

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: a funny Valentine's day video for all!!! :D

what he said at last i did not get him?
 

swing

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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yar i dont know k aslee konsi hai mujay yeh image net say mila hai .i guess yeh teeno ladies same hain.
 
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Spartacus

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: 14-FEB HAYA DAY not VALENTINE DAY

yani saal bhar Haya Day mana kar apni izzat aur iman bacha lo aur 14-Feb ko apni LUNGI khol kar saare izzat ka falooda bana do...... zara sochie ke kisi behan beti ki izzat ek bar chali jae to phir wo 364 Haya Day manane se bhi loat ke nahi aegi......

I do not know why some of you are thinking that to say ..Happy Valentine Day ....means loss of HAYYA. ( Your Hayya is very weak , Uss Ko Lukwah Lugg Gaya Hay , Jo Itni Si Baat per Khatuum Ho Jata Hay , Usss Ka Ilaj Karaooo ).
As I already said to someone Happy Valentine Day ....How can it is a loss of HAYYA for me or for her ???
Happy Valentine Day is nothing but just equal to I Love You . A person can say everyday I Love You but Happy Valentine Day once in a year on 14th of Feb.


I Love You ( Every Day ) = Happy Valentine Day ( 14th Feb. only)
( Sooooo Sonar Ka Aoor Aaik Lohar Ka )

You can save alot of money time and gifts by using this formula.
 
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saint

Politcal Worker (100+ posts)
Re: a funny Valentine's day video for all!!! :D

he asked for card with wording "I ONLY love you" and he wants seven of them :-)
 

tiger54

MPA (400+ posts)
to all my family members? i have three big brothers so are u gay?
even if they were gay they wldnt take ur proposal coz u look like a desperate gay ;)
same from me to all your family members !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! specially girls
 

sangeen

Minister (2k+ posts)
@Spartacus

Aur ap ki haya bohat strong hae jis ko kuch bhi (i mean kuch bhi) karo to nahi jati....balke aati hi nahi to jaegi kia.

Wese mae ne jab naya naya Computer seekha tha to Microsoft Words mae BOLD, ITALIC, aur colour se khelta rehta tha.... ye 10 saal purani baat hae... Aap ne kab kharida tha????? [hilar][hilar][hilar]
 

Spartacus

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
@Spartacus

Aur ap ki haya bohat strong hae jis ko kuch bhi (i mean kuch bhi) karo to nahi jati....balke aati hi nahi to jaegi kia.

Wese mae ne jab naya naya Computer seekha tha to Microsoft Words mae BOLD, ITALIC, aur colour se khelta rehta tha.... ye 10 saal purani baat hae... Aap ne kab kharida tha????? [hilar][hilar][hilar]

Dear do not be personal .....
If your year of birth is after 1986 then I used first time computer before you came to this world.
As You wrote ....jab naya naya Computer seekha tha to Microsoft Words mae BOLD, ITALIC, aur colour se khelta rehta tha
You were playing with colours and I am using , this is difference between you and me.

As you wrote ....Aur ap ki haya bohat strong .....
Yes , Meri Hayya Itni Strong Hay Jo Kay ....Happy Valentine Day Kehnay Say Beeemar Nahee Hoti Hay
 

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