Positive Pakistanis: A rock for the forgotten

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By Mehmood Ali Pathan
Published: March 18, 2011

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To some, he is a simple barber. But to the children he has reunited with their families, Hajji Anwar Khokar is an angel in human form.

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With all the bad news surrounding us, its easy to give into despair. But there is hope out there, and this country of ours is is filled with people who have struggled in the face of adversity and won. Here is the story of one such person.
They call him Larkanas Edhi. And certainly, with his white beard, modest stature and soft speech, Haji Anwar Ali Khokhar does resemble Pakistans well-known social worker. But the similarities dont end there; like Edhi, he too has transformed himself, and his mission, into an institution.
Simply put, Haji Anwar reunites lost children with their parents. He has made it his lifes mission to find and collect frightened lost children and give them shelter until he can track down their parents. The interesting thing is that Haji Anwar didnt plan to become a saviour for these children he slipped into the habit while he was happily pursuing his day job as a simple barber, tending to Zulfiqar Ali Bhuttos tresses, among others.
Born in Minan village in Qambar in 1942, Haji Anwar lost his father when he was eight. His family moved to Larkana soon after and lived in Lahori Muhallah, where he started his apprenticeship with Ustad Muhammad Bakhsh Mangi, a hairdresser at Pakistan Chowk.
In 1969 he opened his own barber shop in Bhurgari Panda. Haji Anwar was a member of the Pakistan Peoples Party at the time, and used to meet its founder, ZA Bhutto, frequently. One thing led to another and he was soon cutting Bhuttos hair. Many of his clients, like ZA Bhutto, were famous: Nawab Sultan Ahmed Chandio and Nawab Saifullah Magsi also came to him for haircuts. When other people saw Bhutto Sahab getting a haircut from me, they wanted one too, Haji Anwar recalls. His ADC JA Rahim, Military Secretary Khalid Rathore and Major General Imtiaz also started coming to me.
Haji Anwar is full of interesting stories about his encounters: When Bhutto came in for a haircut, he would sit on a chair without any arms and his staff placed files on his right and left. He would continue signing papers even during his haircut, says Haji Anwar.
But despite this brush with fame, Haji Anwar felt something was missing. Then, one day, he heard that a missing child had shown up at a nearby mosque he used to frequent. Haji Anwar made an announcement on the mosques loudspeaker, asking the childs parents to come forward. After that, whenever a missing child appeared in the area I took responsibility for him or her, making the announcements at the mosque. If their parents didnt show up, I took the child home to care for him, says Haji Anwar.
Slowly, word spread, and people began bringing lost children to Haji Anwar. He would go around town with the lost child riding on his bicycle, and ring his bell at every house so that people could come out and try to identify the child. This became his signature: even if his cycle was broken, he walked from home to home carrying the missing child in one arm and ringing a bell with his free hand.
Haji Anwar claims he has managed to reunite about 10,000 lost children with their parents since he began his mission. He doesnt want to be compensated, saying the pleasure of seeing children go home to their mothers is reward enough. When a missing child finally makes it into his mothers lap, my soul is satisfied, the feeling takes all my tiredness away, he says.
Hajji Anwar had to face his fair share of obstacles during his mission, however. Sometimes, when I took children around on my motorcycle, people used to throw stones at me, he says. And my family had to cope with all the children I brought home some of these children were disabled, and were very difficult to care for.
Through all his troubles, he persevered, eventually buying a motorcycle so he could get around more easily. He soon converted this motorcycle into a three-wheeler, so that he could go around town with four children instead of one.
Because some of the handicapped children in my care used to disturb my family at night, I often had to go to the nearby mosque to spend the night with them there, says Haji Anwar. We would stay at the mosque at Qaim Shah Najjaris shrine. I would pray to God, asking him to arrange for a shelter for these innocent childrenand then one day, my prayers were answered!
Having heard of his work, Larkanas Deputy Commissioner Arif Khan gave him a plot on Airport Road where Haji Anwar built a welfare centre. The centre is now run by his organisation, the Khidmat-e-Masoomeen Welfare Trust. Missing children and the elderly are housed here.
Haji Anwar says he no longer needs to drive around town with missing children. I get more exposure now, and the media helps me publicise my cases, he says.
Haji Anwar says he also cares for missing children whose parents have never been found: Sometimes children stay with us until they become adults. Once I took in a missing baby girl, and she grew up in our shelter. I got my son, Muhammad Younus, married to her.
In 2003 the government awarded him a Tamgha-e-Imtiaz for his services, but Haji Anwar says that despite the recognition his life remains a simple one. His efforts, and the efforts of people like him will ensure that the helpless and destitute will always have somewhere to turn to.
If you know of any people who have achieved something positive, either for themselves or for those around them, please mail us at [email protected] and help us share their story with the world.
Published in The Express Tribune, Sunday Magazine, March 13th, 2011.

http://tribune.com.pk/story/130630/positive-pakistanis-a-rock-for-the-forgotten/
 

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Polio survivor takes one step at a time
By Said Nazir
Published: March 10, 2011

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With all the bad news surrounding us, it’s easy to give into despair. But there is hope out there, and this country of ours is is filled with people who have struggled in the face of adversity and won. Here is the story of one such person.
As the sun rises over the village of Koza Rkale in the Khyber agency, children begin getting ready for another day at school. As they walk towards the school, it’s easy to pick out nine-year old Zaina Bibi from the crowd; this rosy-cheeked girl is the one struggling to keep pace with her friends. Walking the 500 metres to the school is not an easy task for a little girl hobbled by polio.
In 2002, when she was barely a year old, Zaina was struck by polio and her left leg withered. She isn’t the only one. In the Khyber Agency alone, 35 children were crippled by polio in 2010. The prognosis for the future is not promising: half of the 210,000 children under the age of five in Khyber Agency have missed their polio vaccination drops.
But though her leg is crippled, Zaina Bibi’s spirit remains undimmed. She copes with the disease by using leg braces to walk and her story is one of unbounded optimism and resilience in the face of adversity.
“I have difficulties moving but my passion for education gives me the strength to go to school daily,” says the bright nine-year-old.
If her passion gives her strength, it is her affliction that gives her focus. A student of Class III, Zaina wants to become a doctor and anti-polio campaigner after finishing school: “I want to complete my matriculation. My favourite profession is medicine and I would like to be an anti-polio worker, so I can prevent other children from falling prey to this disability,” she says with a proud smile on her face.
Zaina is lucky on two counts: one, that her family supports her education — a rarity in the deeply conservative tribal areas where the majority of people are against sending their children to school. Second, that her school has not been destroyed by militants in the volatile region of Khyber where, according to the department of education, 28 schools have been blown up by militants in the recent past, the majority of which were girls’ schools.
Zaina’s father is a driver in soap-manufacturing company in Muscat and her family lives with her uncle Khyal Muhammad. Muhammad has been unfailingly supportive of the little girl’s aspirations in the past and says he will continue to do so: “We will continue supporting Zaina morally and financially until she herself chooses to end her education,” he says with determination.
Over the past six years, Zaina’s family has changed her leg brace twice after she outgrew it. “Now she’s outgrown her leg brace again and it hurts her when she uses it to walk. We will have to change it soon,” says her uncle.
The WHO’s polio vaccination teams have repeatedly failed to achieve targets in large parts of northern Pakistan and Fata over the past few years due to anti-polio propaganda, growing militancy and counter-militancy operation. But Zaina Bibi knows nothing of campaigns, targets and five-year plans. For her, the only goal is to reach her school every day and gain an education so that she can prevent others from falling victim to the disease that has made that journey of 500 metres seem like a trek of many miles.
If you know of any people who have achieved something positive, either for themselves or for those around them, please mail us at [email protected] and help us share their story with the world.
Published in The Express Tribune, Sunday Magazine, March 6th, 2011.

http://tribune.com.pk/story/126409/living-with-polio-one-step-at-a-time/