getting married with a british born girl?? need help

[khawaja555]

thanks alot for ur great answer please clear few more things

what if girl is from mirpur ??whats wrong in it?
how will they treat an educated person like servant??
wont he get nationality afterwards?y did u say they will throw after 2 years?? wont he be a UK national?

mehar bibi ya mehar bhai ye baat is forum pe karne wali he? aap ko kaisa lage ga jab aap ki behan ke mutaalaq logon se poocha jaye? muje aisa lagta he ke time pass ke lie is tara ke threads zahoor me aate hain aur log(including me) apne qeemti mashwaray dena shuru kar dete hain:13:

 

[simple_and_peacefull]

dear mehar,

good or bad scenario is depend on intention of marriage. if your brother marry the girl for immigration reasons then forget about future because these kind of agreement between both parties not stay for long times. once contract finish then relation finish. in these agreements you can't bound the other party on relationship.

but if marriage is for long terms relationship of husband & wife then its depend on both parties atitute & behaviours with each others. secondly about background etc , different people tell their own views with little bit more misala. these kind of infos make family more worse in later on time if in-case your brother got married with same.

last thing i would say ...its all about trust between both.they should have strong trust.

if boy and girl have trust in each other then they should get marry. if not then forget each others.

my brother is about to be engaged with a British born Pakistani girl? that girl is not our relative.we came to know about from a friend reference. but when i told others about this rista they advised not to do this engagement showing their reservations up to the extent of girl's character, wrong information provided about girl background or family background etc

can anyone tell what about could be problem marrying British born pakistani girl??

what could be the worse case scenario ??

 

[kayawish24]

koi muje bhi pakistani german kudhi dila do bhai (cry)(cry) i am 31 and living in germany since 2005.i have perminant residence permit here and i have my Computer Hardware business....i found very difficult for me to have any PATHAN girl coz i myself from peshawar and pathan ( pashot speaker ) i met many pakis here but all from Punjab and Punjabis dont give daughters to pathans i dont know why ...i need a seroius mairrage and i dont want to marry for nationality since i have my perminant residence visa in germany :P.Koi meri bhi madat karo bhai ...koi hai pakistani lardki muj se shadi karne ke lyea ?????????????????????

 

[mehar]

I dont agree with u. not every1 is same. I have seen many people here got married and they are living happily even very happy. it all depends where the boys coming from like is he from a village? (even people living in Cities have PENDOO mentality) and also where is girlz (born here) background (like if the girls family is from some small town or village in Pakistan, her mentality will be low level even shez born here) and also where the british born girl is living in England like if she is from Yorkshire side thn 99% she is PENDOO and backward. Pakistanis have changed now. they dont just want to marry for the nationality which is a really good thing.

about nationality: mate, England had immediate nationality system longggggggggggggggggg time ago like in 80s, until few years ago it used to take 5 years for nationality and now its gone more easy just 3 years but u have to pass a test.

thanks bro.
can you tell me which i will have to pass??
also how long will take for my brother's visa after nikah so that he can go UK

 

[mehar]

mehar bibi ya mehar bhai ye baat is forum pe karne wali he? aap ko kaisa lage ga jab aap ki behan ke mutaalaq logon se poocha jaye? muje aisa lagta he ke time pass ke lie is tara ke threads zahoor me aate hain aur log(including me) apne qeemti mashwaray dena shuru kar dete hain:13:

well there is a tab for non-siasi discussion as well
for you it could be time pass but i posted it in a very very serious mood
and tell u i didnt get disappointed. i got very good suggestion.things that i didnt think of

 

[asif86]

no problem:

wrong with mirpur girl is, nearly 90% of pakistanis here are from Mirpur side and they are here for long time. their families are really really backward. they are really strict with their kids and they do force marriages alot. 99% force marriages in mirpur people. because of that strictness the girls are messed up. they are frustrated, they dont like pakistanis and stuff. if ur brother marry's mirpuri girl i would say 90% chances he is gona have hard time. BBC news confirmed that worst parents in england are Pakistanis and 90% of pakistanis are mirpuri and i do agree. where I live its mirpuri area, and I found out they are backward. so I am moving away.

I dont think mirpuris are 90%.According to most estimates mirpuris make up 60-70% of british pakistani community.In the south around london mirpuris are not many.The recent changes in immigration laws is going to hit mirpuris.If you want to bring a spouse from back home than you need to be earning over 18,000 a year.Since most mirpuris are near the bottom in education,its hard for them to find well-paid jobs.They dominate taxi and take-away business.

http://www.dawn.com/news/734356/britains-new-immigration-laws-spark-wedding-boom-in-mirpur