Saladin A said:These PPP secularists and agnostics should not express their opinions on matters that are totally alien to their philosophy of life.
These secularists should Keep their mouths shut and keep their tongues in their mouths.
@ Sister Star Gazer!I do agree with babadeena that Allah has given the man right to have four wives at a time in his life but has to be fair to all and treat equally.
babadeena said:So what you are trying to say is, if someone wants to know the laws of polygamy in Islam, this verse of Quran is enough?
What I am trying is to put the things into their real perspective. This Verse of Quran is the only Verse which specifically narrates about polygamy. Everything will start from this verse. Its being "enough" or not "enough" depend upon the person desiring to get the knowledge. However, I repeat again that it is the only verse in Quran which specifically narrates about polygamy. This verse is often quoted and distorted by those who make to defend the fantasies of having ladies and are not content with one.
[quote:10etjou2]And similarly you believe that Translation of Quran is enough for those who want to derive other shariah laws? (and we don't need Tafseer, Hadeeth, Usoole-Fiqh etc)
I hope u got answers. Now please be kind to inform what made you to ask above questions except that mine position is only based on Quran and its verses and their strict implementation on text. "No-omission-formula". Feel free to ask anything more.[/quote:10etjou2]You haven't answered my simple questions
Star Gazer said:What Sherry Reahman said is her opinion and we need not fight over it as if it is the law that we need to embrace or not.
My question to all the brothers is that ;
Why is the question of 4 marriages the most important for the men of Pakistan?
This is a personal matter mostly and may be decided on individual basis. Why don't we talk about the rights of the citizens in an islamic state and the responsibilities of the man if he wants to be the head of the family?
I can not believe that Allah can be anything but absolutely and most mercifully fairest for all men and women. So thre is something that we are not discussing or maybe side stepping just to prove our point.
I do agree with babadeena that Allah has given the man right to have four wives at a time in his life but has to be fair to all and treat equally.
Now please inform me as to the number of wives that the four most beloved Sahaba of Nabi SAWWS namely Hazrat Abubakar,Hazrat Ummar,Hazrat Usman and Hazrat Ali had at one time in their lives? This to me would be very informative and maybe make us think of what we should do that is more important than having 4 or less wives at a time.
Your humble sister
babadeena said:@ Sister Star Gazer!I do agree with babadeena that Allah has given the man right to have four wives at a time in his life but has to be fair to all and treat equally.
I have taken a quote from your post. I think there is some misunderstanding. that is absolutely not mine position I do not know from which of mine post u got that impression.
As per Quran:
Islam allowed upto four wives to a person IF
a) he is the guardian of orphan girls and also holds their wealth in his control;
b) his intention is to keep the wealth of orphans with him even at the
cost of marrying an orphan girl under his control although he did not like
orphan girl as "a lady, I mean her personality".
c) In this scenario, Allah SWT gave stern warning to such persons about orphan's
wealth devouring and destroying the life of a lady just for wealth; instead
d) Allah allowed such a person to have four wives but not to grab the wealth of orphan or her life.
e) Even then Allah SWT categorically imposed conditions on such a person that then you have to deal fairly with your all wives. And If he(man) has fear that he will not be able to deal fairly with more than one wives, then he(man) has been commanded to have only ONE wife.
f) At another place in Quran, Allah says that "Ye will not be able to deal justly with your wives how much ardently you may wish to do so" . Therefore this also closes the doors for having more than one wife.
I can give a glaring example. Allah has totally forbidden (made Haram) the eating of Pork by believers but in exceptional cases, it is allowed. So by the same way while
allowing four wives to a particular set of persons, the Religion has placed immense restrictions also on that.
There is no as such a "blank permission" to Every one. A man loves to enjoy or wishes to enjoy the company of as much ladies as possible, therefore justifies his lust in one way or the other. Unfortunately, Ulema and people portray that if a man has ample resources he can marry more than one wife, that is absolutely not the case.
Anyone who has objection on the above stated position, he/she bring me a proof more valid than Quran. Mine position is totally based on Quran and its authority is must and absolute over all other material.
Remember the word '????????' is plural of '?????' and used for both gendersbabadeena said:a) he is the guardian of orphan girls and also holds their wealth in his control;
How do you know his intention? where was it mentioned in these verses?babadeena said:b) his intention is to keep the wealth of orphans with him even at the
cost of marrying an orphan girl under his control although he did not like
orphan girl as "a lady, I mean her personality".
Zaidi Qasim said:I am reading these postings with some degree of interest and agony.I do not personaly like to indulge with what is the real meaning of these ayats in quran and what is the common consent among majority of the ullmas regarding polygamy in Islam.I can, If I like to present a different opinion which may support the argument in favour of if these quranic ayats were understood in right context or not.But I do not argue the case without having sufficient knowledge of my own. I may have an opinion, which could be cloudier and not worth a penny in establishing the truth contrary to what common understanding exist in different school of thoughts about the true meaning of these ayats. Nevertheless, it would seems to be forcing my own interpretation of quran and insist of it to be called true unless otherwise proven wrong. I request all brothers to be very careful regarding the interpretation in favour or against each other.We will definately need to consider and take accounts of all available resources and hundreds of years of work by some very knowledgable and competent scholars who have extensively written about this topic. I hope allah will help showing us the true path. Amen.
gazoomartian said:Zaidi Qasim said:I am reading these postings with some degree of interest and agony.I do not personaly like to indulge with what is the real meaning of these ayats in quran and what is the common consent among majority of the ullmas regarding polygamy in Islam.I can, If I like to present a different opinion which may support the argument in favour of if these quranic ayats were understood in right context or not.But I do not argue the case without having sufficient knowledge of my own. I may have an opinion, which could be cloudier and not worth a penny in establishing the truth contrary to what common understanding exist in different school of thoughts about the true meaning of these ayats. Nevertheless, it would seems to be forcing my own interpretation of quran and insist of it to be called true unless otherwise proven wrong. I request all brothers to be very careful regarding the interpretation in favour or against each other.We will definately need to consider and take accounts of all available resources and hundreds of years of work by some very knowledgable and competent scholars who have extensively written about this topic. I hope allah will help showing us the true path. Amen.
This is a forum. We are all expressing our own views. You share YOURS too for the benefit of all of us.
I will always hold the view that whats written in Qur'an is not up for debates. We must take it as it came, no IFs and BUTs about it. Take it or leave, as I wrote earlier, read the ayahs after the AyatulKursi ' La ikraha fiddeen.....' alakh
Tanweer.Amjad said:gazoomartian said:[quote="Zaidi Qasim":2pj799x6]I am reading these postings with some degree of interest and agony.I do not personaly like to indulge with what is the real meaning of these ayats in quran and what is the common consent among majority of the ullmas regarding polygamy in Islam.I can, If I like to present a different opinion which may support the argument in favour of if these quranic ayats were understood in right context or not.But I do not argue the case without having sufficient knowledge of my own. I may have an opinion, which could be cloudier and not worth a penny in establishing the truth contrary to what common understanding exist in different school of thoughts about the true meaning of these ayats. Nevertheless, it would seems to be forcing my own interpretation of quran and insist of it to be called true unless otherwise proven wrong. I request all brothers to be very careful regarding the interpretation in favour or against each other.We will definately need to consider and take accounts of all available resources and hundreds of years of work by some very knowledgable and competent scholars who have extensively written about this topic. I hope allah will help showing us the true path. Amen.
This is a forum. We are all expressing our own views. You share YOURS too for the benefit of all of us.
I will always hold the view that whats written in Qur'an is not up for debates. We must take it as it came, no IFs and BUTs about it. Take it or leave, as I wrote earlier, read the ayahs after the AyatulKursi ' La ikraha fiddeen.....' alakh
abbasiali said:Mashaallah,
First of all I will regret myself, how this most eye catching thread overlooked by me, where my most favorite writer are involved with their full capacity,
Plus I found out the level of thread has gone on very high level with decency, here is the main point, Difference of opinion should not be the criteria among respect of each other.
Apart from Pakistani ruling class or so called leaders, we would get from them, this kind of garbage, which Gabol Sherry Rehman had thrown on us. But the main issue is, how to protect the law in its real form, and how to interpret to the common people correctly, I am very thankful to all of the participants who had furnished such complexed issue, very simply, and I have a very strong feeling that we are going to have oncoming information in this regard.
Dear Babadeena, I have send you a PM, please respond to me at your earliest.
Regards
Sirji,gazoomartian said:abbasiali said:Mashaallah,
First of all I will regret myself, how this most eye catching thread overlooked by me, where my most favorite writer are involved with their full capacity,
Plus I found out the level of thread has gone on very high level with decency, here is the main point, Difference of opinion should not be the criteria among respect of each other.
Apart from Pakistani ruling class or so called leaders, we would get from them, this kind of garbage, which Gabol Sherry Rehman had thrown on us. But the main issue is, how to protect the law in its real form, and how to interpret to the common people correctly, I am very thankful to all of the participants who had furnished such complexed issue, very simply, and I have a very strong feeling that we are going to have oncoming information in this regard.
Dear Babadeena, I have send you a PM, please respond to me at your earliest.
Regards
As the qyamah closes in on use, there will be jaheleens pretending to be educated. This is real hadeeth
A woman who is involved in corruption and most like never even does salat/saum, has suddenly become a Mufti.
Qur;an clearly allows 4 wives provided the man can maintain justice between the 4. And its quiet evident now than ever that it is needed. Look at the population, 52% of popultaion is femail in the world. These extar women have to 'consumed' somehow if we want to keep the soceity free of ills. We have no choice unless we want the women to sleep and cry in the dark of night. Lonleiness will create depression, suicide, illicit sex, homo sexuality, other forms of sex etc.
Allah knew of all these hence he issued this commandment of 4 wives, not for fun.
Please send this to Muft Maulani Sherri Rahman!!!!
abbasiali said:Sirji,gazoomartian said:abbasiali said:Mashaallah,
First of all I will regret myself, how this most eye catching thread overlooked by me, where my most favorite writer are involved with their full capacity,
Plus I found out the level of thread has gone on very high level with decency, here is the main point, Difference of opinion should not be the criteria among respect of each other.
Apart from Pakistani ruling class or so called leaders, we would get from them, this kind of garbage, which Gabol Sherry Rehman had thrown on us. But the main issue is, how to protect the law in its real form, and how to interpret to the common people correctly, I am very thankful to all of the participants who had furnished such complexed issue, very simply, and I have a very strong feeling that we are going to have oncoming information in this regard.
Dear Babadeena, I have send you a PM, please respond to me at your earliest.
Regards
As the qyamah closes in on use, there will be jaheleens pretending to be educated. This is real hadeeth
A woman who is involved in corruption and most like never even does salat/saum, has suddenly become a Mufti.
Qur;an clearly allows 4 wives provided the man can maintain justice between the 4. And its quiet evident now than ever that it is needed. Look at the population, 52% of popultaion is femail in the world. These extar women have to 'consumed' somehow if we want to keep the soceity free of ills. We have no choice unless we want the women to sleep and cry in the dark of night. Lonleiness will create depression, suicide, illicit sex, homo sexuality, other forms of sex etc.
Allah knew of all these hence he issued this commandment of 4 wives, not for fun.
Please send this to Muft Maulani Sherri Rahman!!!!
This our good luck to learn more about our religion after coming out from Islamic Jamhouriya Pakistan, where every thing exists except religion, and very few of our friends are fighting for its real life.
So no complaints, Allah brought same types of rulers on same kind of people.
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Although I am not here to defend her or her party or her views, but your feeling showplease arrange a meeting with Mufti Sherri Rehman with me, will you please?
Muft key muftion se Allah samjhey
Dear Babadeena, I have send you a PM, please respond to me at your earliest.
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@babadeena
Since you dont consult other sources of deen to understand the meaning of Quran, how do you know that :
babadeena wrote:
a) he is the guardian of orphan girls and also holds their wealth in his control;
Remember the word '????????' is plural of '?????' and used for both genders
babadeena wrote:
b) his intention is to keep the wealth of orphans with him even at the
cost of marrying an orphan girl under his control although he did not like
orphan girl as "a lady, I mean her personality".
How do you know his intention? where was it mentioned in these verses?
What's the meaning of 'Fil Yatama'? You know its literal translation is 'in the (matter of) orphans'
What's your understanding of verse #. 127 of Sotun-Nisa:
????????????????? ??? ?????????? ???? ??????? ??????????? ???????? ????? ??????? ?????????? ??? ?????????? ??? ???????? ?????????? ????????? ??? ?????????????? ??? ?????? ??????? ????????????? ???? ?????????????? ???????????????????? ???? ???????????? ?????? ????????? ???????????? ??????????? ????? ?????????? ???? ?????? ??????? ??????? ????? ???? ????????
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